Ya, I'm fairly certain there is no way in "a very cold place" that Jim would have let me take his picture by himself. With the kids, maybe. Way to go Kyle. Gina you did a great job on the picture taking. They turned out great!
I know I'm OT with this comment, but I couldn't comment on your worried entry. Which is fine. We can go no-comments, when we want.
But Oh Hon, you are young and peppy and spontaneous and very much ALIVE, in all ways. This is good. This is wonderful. This is so much better, than many of your age. Or of different ages.
Please, don't second guess yourself so much.
We can never totally please any friend. I wonder if any human being can ever totally please any other human being, all the time? Even a loved one. All the time...
We are humans. When will we cut ourselves some slack, and accept that fact? Humans goof. Humans try a lot. But sometimes they goof.
Guess what? We are alllllllll human. :-)
And humans are always in need of assurance. Always wanting to ask; "Am I ok?" With luck and practice, humans learn to give a lot of it, to ourselves. We learn that we can't please everyone, all the time. We learn to be very positive, about our belief, that we are fine. We fail at times, but that's normal. And basically, we learn to KNOW that we are fine!!!!!!!!!!
And then, we don't have to look into the mirror of others, to find out, if we are OK. Or ask them to assure us, that we are ok. We have that knowledge {we are ok!}, inside our own selves, in our own head and in our own heart, all the time.
Try it for a day or two. Try knowing that you/Gina are fine, wonderful, lovable, strong, capable, energetic, great mom, great partner, great cook, great you-name-it. See how amazing you feel, when you-yourself know you are OK. You are trying. You are fine and super-fine, even. 'Cause you are a human being, and you are living a life, as a human being.
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But Oh Hon, you are young and peppy and spontaneous and very much ALIVE, in all ways. This is good. This is wonderful. This is so much better, than many of your age. Or of different ages.
Please, don't second guess yourself so much.
We can never totally please any friend. I wonder if any human being can ever totally please any other human being, all the time? Even a loved one. All the time...
We are humans. When will we cut ourselves some slack, and accept that fact? Humans goof. Humans try a lot. But sometimes they goof.
Guess what? We are alllllllll human. :-)
And humans are always in need of assurance. Always wanting to ask; "Am I ok?" With luck and practice, humans learn to give a lot of it, to ourselves. We learn that we can't please everyone, all the time. We learn to be very positive, about our belief, that we are fine. We fail at times, but that's normal. And basically, we learn to KNOW that we are fine!!!!!!!!!!
And then, we don't have to look into the mirror of others, to find out, if we are OK. Or ask them to assure us, that we are ok. We have that knowledge {we are ok!}, inside our own selves, in our own head and in our own heart, all the time.
Try it for a day or two. Try knowing that you/Gina are fine, wonderful, lovable, strong, capable, energetic, great mom, great partner, great cook, great you-name-it. See how amazing you feel, when you-yourself know you are OK. You are trying. You are fine and super-fine, even. 'Cause you are a human being, and you are living a life, as a human being.
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Mari-Nanci
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